Pros and Cons of Divorce Mediation
What is Divorce Mediation?
Pros of Divorce Mediation
Couples often prefer mediation because it can facilitate healthy communication. The mediator may also have the legal expertise to help the couples complete the mandatory divorce forms and legal documents. All negotiations and issues are confidential, and mediation is often less expensive than a traditional divorce, which pleases everyone.
Mediation may also help the children adjust to the divorce. If children understand that both parents were partners in the divorce process and they worked together to come to a mutual agreement that worked for everyone, they may be happier with the final outcome of the child custody arrangement.
Mediation will also allow couples to seek a resolution in court if they determine that mediation is not going to work. If the outcome of the mediation is not acceptable, either party in the divorce may choose to hire a divorce lawyer and schedule a court appearance to decide the divorce issues.
Mediation may only be successful when both spouses want to have an amicable divorce. If one spouse is not honest or chooses to hide vital information from the other, mediation may not be successful. Mediation has become increasingly popular and has helped many couples through the divorce process.
Cons of Mediation
Mediators do not have the power of a judge. They do not have the legal authority to force either spouse to agree to any type of divorce arrangement, and the success of mediation will rest entirely on the ability of each partner to work together to come to a mutually advantageous agreement.
Mediation will require face-to-face meetings and discussions with your spouse. If you and your spouse have had a contentious break-up or if either spouse was abusive or manipulative, mediation may not be successful.
Discussing Mediation with a Divorce Lawyer
If you do choose mediation, keep in mind that many states also do not have any special types of licensing requirements for mediators. How do you find the best mediator? Researching the mediator's background and experience is important. Discussing your divorce with a divorce lawyer is also important. Divorce lawyers may be able to offer some advice about choosing the best mediator for your divorce.
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